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Finding Love and Sex Among Vikings, Boy Toys, and Superior Women

-Understanding the new type of man emerging in today’s world of superior women
-Navigating the ebb and flow of energy and desire in your intimate relationship
-Artfully exchanging love even when you feel trapped or rejected
-Gifting vs. hooking your lover
-Growing through the three stages of wanting to give and receive love and sex
-Inspiring your lover’s heart with your bodily skills
-Understanding why women are currently more advanced than men and how this colors intimacy
-Attracting a man who can meet you fully
-Finding a woman who trusts you deeply
-Giving your lover a magic carpet ride to somewhere new
-Self-sufficient women attracting needy men
-Practicing the love jelly-fish technique as soulful invitation

Enlightenment, Marriage, and the Dark Side

-Giving dark energy to magnify passion
-Understanding why the masculine seeks freedom and the feminine seeks love
-Differentiating true dark love from heartlessness
-Orienting away from rape and war toward ravishment and martial arts
-Attracting partners as evolved as you
-Creating full-spectrum sexual polarity
-Expressing darkness to unkink love’s knots
-Liberating the lower body
-Artfully offering subtle and gross dark sexual energy
-Why men crave a partner with specific energetic flavors
-Understanding how superior women become masculinized and the resultant affairs of their partners
-What qualities do men find worth marrying?
-Marrying to increase, not decrease, freedom
-Evolving men’s motivation to get married
-Cultivating sexual irresistibility for the sake of liberation
-Choosing a partner to grow with through the stages of marriage
-Increasing capacity for sexual inspiration, saturation, and obliteration
-Seeking feminine energy through porn and nature if not women
-Differentiating first-stage manipulation from third-stage expression
-Offering spontaneous feedback briefly and subtly
-Achieving clarity of desire to attract a well-matched partner
-Longing for long-term love, desiring short-term delight
-Understanding why deep love can render a man impotent
-Sexually gifting the unity of consciousness and light in love

Buddhism, Blowjobs, and Chocolate: Spiritual Access to Passion’s Portals

-No distance between lust and enlightenment
-Feeling, transforming, and transmuting passionate emotions
-Buddhism’s three styles of making medicine out of emotional poison
-The Six Levels of Sexuality: Desire to devotion
-Tiger Woods and true yogis
-How women are more advanced than men today
-What is the purpose of your intimacy?
-Older women with younger men
-Growing from sexual neediness to sexual gifting

Aligning with Love: Sex, Wealth, and Worship

-Spiritual realization requires no time
-Relaxing as your natural state of love
-How unresolved sexuality closes us down
-Learning our patterns from our parents
-Therapy is not yoga is not spiritual awakening
-Sexual yoga and the love-bliss of conscious light
-Masculine and feminine displays of sexiness
-Turn-ons: dress, humor, and presence
-The feminine loves to be worshipped as light
-How to get a man to do something
-From power struggles, to respect, to adoration
-Feminine and masculine tilts of spiritual practice
-Love and the true root of sexual passion
-False spirituality and your real way
-Peeling away your emotional shells
-Shining love through your heart’s wounds
-The financial value of third-stage practice

Craving Nothingness, Wanting Fullness, Celebrating Nowness

-Taking flight with the two wings of conscious celebration
-Masculine fascism and feminine hysteria
-Polarity and the infinitely heavy mass of the masculine
-The He and the She: Nothing matters, everything matters
-Constraint: when the honeymoon is over
-Strange drama and the source of feminine pleasure
-Your childhood shapes your nervous system for life
-Don’t confuse healing, dancing, and awakening now
-You can be artful sexually no matter how crippled you are
-When is rejection real?
-Yoga is art; Van Gogh’s suicidal light
-Natural resistance to your own growth and gifts
-Sexual crucifixion and divine life
-Trust, penetration, and choosing the right man
-Yogic exercise of the Coolidge Effect

Bondage, Boundaries, and the Rolling Stones: Spiritual Happiness vs. Sexual Healing

-Understanding the differences between sexual happiness, sexual artfulness, and sexual healing
-Sexuality is how you live, not just intercourse
-Experiencing sexual happiness through spiritual depth
-Happiness does not lead to skillfulness
-Being a sexual genius while also being sexually crippled
-Recognizing love in the present moment during sex
-Feminine and Masculine approaches to sexual spiritual practice
-Witnessing and dancing sexually at the same time
-Feminine sensitivity to false masculine spirituality
-Sharing beautiful light through sexual twists
-Sexual healing requires safety; sexual art requires jumping off the ledge
-Sexual art can feel like emotional abuse to our wounded heart
-Healthy boundaries and artful violation of boundaries
-Sex beyond power games and neutralized respect
-Blissfully dying into sexual light
-Living your purpose dissolves mental tension
-Authority, trust, and playing beyond fetishes
-Natural vs. kinked BDSM
-Porn as degradation or education

Emotional Chaos and Authentic Love: How to Help Your Man Navigate Your Heart

-Where are the trustworthy men?
-Telling your man what to do or being frustrated
-How to help your man navigate
-Training your man to read your emotions
-Demonstrating primary emotion rather than anger
-Crying: Ecstasy or pain?
-How to enjoy connecting with a man who can’t feel you
-What is third-stage helplessness?
-Offering your yearning as vulnerability
-Relaxing second-stage self-sufficiency
-Growing through unknowing
-Making purpose obsolete through accomplishment
-Detecting the spiritual suppression of the feminine
-Why is embodiment a problem for most men?
-Horrible feelings are also divine
-Being obliterated by a man’s deep, persistent love
-Relaxing into natural sexiness
-Inviting deep consciousness by offering pleasurable light
-Three stages of feminine liberation
-Engaging two-bodied practices of love through trust
-Dealing with creepy energy from others
-Growing through phases of devotion dress and sexual adornment

The Third Stage: Making Love Beyond Sharing Needs

-Living fresh through learned practice
-The sexual hobbyist vs. sexual artist
-Training the body for pleasure
-Healthy and degraded use of drugs and substances
-When do sex and drugs go together?
-Selfishness, sexual addictions, and substance use
-Using alcohol for spiritual practice
-Growing through stages of food and sex
-Understanding the three stages of diet
-Never getting the love you want
-Attracting men who don’t want to feel your needs
-Being born as a giver of love
-Learning deep sex is as painful and clumsy as learning to play violin at first
-Relieve your man of constraints
-Make art now since chores never end
-Happiness is giving the gift that you are
-Your value is the state you are radiating now
-Why are you with your chosen woman?
-Enjoying relationship as crucifixion
-Learning to feel your woman’s heart deeper than she can
-Navigating subtle feminine cues
-Choosing to cultivate sexual polarity or not
-Great practitioners fail often
-Understanding feminine drama and love’s transmission
-Why women reject the love they want
-Ruining years of love with one bad moment
-How to rectify mistakes instantly and creatively through humor
-Mistakes make for great sexual artistry
-Playing the sex-slave and ass-kicker in committed intimacy

Rhythms of Revelation: Jazz, Jesus, and James Bond

-Sex as art is not measured by “success” but by magic
-Artful lovemaking is mostly mistakes and humor
-Dissatisfaction leads to sexual creativity
-Assuming he doesn’t understand your needs
-Attracting a man’s presence from his head to body and heart
-Offering compassion to stubborn old habits
-Correction is continuous, so joy is necessary
-Being turned off by a man’s unconsciousness
-Practices are experiments not commandments
-Taking responsibility for the ripples of your actions
-Using dark talk to spark attraction
-Practice starts clunky, gets refined
-Good practice often feels like “failure”
-Playing with energy and attention in sexual practice
-Becoming a sexual connoisseur by developing new distinctions
-Being a man’s source of freedom by liberating his consciousness
-How to fail without collapsing
-Giving her your surprising humor as a gift
-Growing beyond “pleasing mommy”
-Navigating conflict to deeper pleasure
-Sexual jazz is not sexual therapy
-Riffing and jamming together in love, not criticizing
-Sustaining your own openness when your partner collapses
-Understanding the three stages of practice and correction
-Self-responsibility as precursor to sexual gifting
-Doing your sexual art from wholeness not neediness
-Giving your Jesus and James Bond to your woman