Rhythms of Revelation: Jazz, Jesus, and James Bond

-Sex as art is not measured by “success” but by magic
-Artful lovemaking is mostly mistakes and humor
-Dissatisfaction leads to sexual creativity
-Assuming he doesn’t understand your needs
-Attracting a man’s presence from his head to body and heart
-Offering compassion to stubborn old habits
-Correction is continuous, so joy is necessary
-Being turned off by a man’s unconsciousness
-Practices are experiments not commandments
-Taking responsibility for the ripples of your actions
-Using dark talk to spark attraction
-Practice starts clunky, gets refined
-Good practice often feels like “failure”
-Playing with energy and attention in sexual practice
-Becoming a sexual connoisseur by developing new distinctions
-Being a man’s source of freedom by liberating his consciousness
-How to fail without collapsing
-Giving her your surprising humor as a gift
-Growing beyond “pleasing mommy”
-Navigating conflict to deeper pleasure
-Sexual jazz is not sexual therapy
-Riffing and jamming together in love, not criticizing
-Sustaining your own openness when your partner collapses
-Understanding the three stages of practice and correction
-Self-responsibility as precursor to sexual gifting
-Doing your sexual art from wholeness not neediness
-Giving your Jesus and James Bond to your woman